Life Is Like A Road Essay

The Importance of Each Decision in Robert Frost's The Road Not Taken

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The Importance of Each Decision in The Road Not Taken

"Two roads diverged in a wood, and I -- / I took the one less traveled by, / And that has made all the difference." Robert Frost's "The Road Not Taken" is a lyrical poem about the decisions that one must make in life. When a man approaches a fork in the road on which he is traveling, he must choose which path to take. The choice that he makes, as with any choices made in life, affects him in a way that "has made all the difference . Thematically, the poem argues that no matter how small a decision is, that decision will affect a person's life forever.

"The Road Not Taken" is told as a first-person narrative. The narrator is looking back on the decisions that have affected him.…show more content…

The man had to decide which path to take, one that was very worn, or "one less traveled by." He decided to take the less traveled path and keep "the first for another day." Looking back on this situation, the narrator feels his decision has changed his life forever.

On the other hand, Frost could be using the images presented in the poem in a very involved and general way. The paths and the fork may no longer refer to their definitions, but instead as keywords in a description of life. Through the poem, Frost is defining life as a series of decisions. Some of these decisions may, at the time, be thought of as insignificant, while others could be thought of as very significant. Frost argues that a decisions' significance at the time is not really important, for any choice will change one's life. Every day, people, including the narrator of the poem, are presented with "Two roads" that diverge "in a yellow wood." These roads are not concrete or physical, but rather represent choices. The fact that one road is "grassy and wanted wear" while the other was commonly traversed shows the reader that some choices require one to choose something that is not commonly sought or to do something that is not commonly done. The total of these decisions leads people, like the reader, down a new path: a path which the narrator himself created. The narrator comes to the realization that every

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30 Things I’ve Carried For 15 Months On the Road (An Essay On Minimalism)

Thirty things. Ten pounds. That’s all.

Fifteen months ago, I left my job, sold 90% of my things and set off on the road.

The things I carry have evolved with me. Many things went. A few new things joined. The process was refined.

I’d like to show you what I carry.

But before we take a look, a word on why.

Why own few things?

“Having is not so pleasing a thing as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.” — Spock

I lot of the smartest (and happiest) people I know are habitual simplifiers. It’s not a hobby. They do it because it works.

Minimalism isn’t an end in itself; it’s a powerful tool for getting what you want from life.

My thoughts on the why behind simplification —

  • Reduce decision fatigue. The Zuckerbergs, Bransons, hedge fund managers of the world are wearing the same few things, eating the same few things and trying to work in the same few places. Save energy on pointless choices and spend it on doing great work instead.
  • Practice in poverty. Routinely exposing yourself to fear, stress and hardship in a stable environment to bulletproof your mind for when the proverbial shit hits the proverbial fan.
A relevant quote from the great philosopherSeneca — “Set aside a certain number of days, during which you shall be content with the scantiest and cheapest fare, with coarse and rough dress, saying to yourself the while: ‘Is this the condition that I feared?’
  • Minimize to maximize. I’ve effectively done surgery and removed certain life decisions — I can’t purchase a car; I can’t buy heavy, expensive things; I can’t gorge myself on souvenirs at the local night bazaar. This creates space for doing other things.
  • Identity. When you own fewer things, what you own starts to take on more meaning. Elsewhere on the blog, I write on the importance of principles and personalphilosophy as drivers for word class motivation. One piece of the puzzle is how you see yourself.

Okay, enough contemplation. On to the list…

The Things I Own

Okay, let’s take a look at the goodies.

What I focus on when purchasing:

There’s more to life than function. Travel without looking like a traveler. Any extra cost pays over to social and business life. This is one thing I see most travelers ignoring.

I purposely choose clothing so that, no matter what combination I wear, it looks presentable and the colors match. This saves me from worrying about ‘outfits’. In the morning, I can just grab and go.

If possible, I want to buy things for life. Not for frugality purposes, but because I don’t want to waste time searching for new gear (which could take hours).

For me to own something, it has to either be (1) usable every day, (2) extremely useful in emergencies, or (3) flexible. When possible layer clothing. Use your socks to store things. Use your backpack as a gym bag.

Second Order Effects. 
I don’t own things to own things. I own things for positive life impact. I carry what I do because it is as close to optimal as I can get for what matters to me — my movement practice, doing great work, and a community of amazing people.

On to the list…

Jansport Backpack

I’ve had this guy for 8 years now. The color is fading, the leather is stained and it’s fraying a bit at the seams, but I bet it’s got another few years in it.

It’s simple, cheap and doesn’t break easily. Lifetime warranty. Save yourself that $200 it would cost for a ‘quality’ bag and spend it instead on friends, books, really good teachers, or game-changing life experiences.

12-inch Macbook (Thai Version)

This is where the magic happens. My most important (and most expensive) item.

My first week on the road, my old laptop broke. I had work to do, so I went to the first Apple store I could find in Thailand and bought this guy.

It’s super-light (~2 pounds) and has the flawless, Steve Job-ness of a Mac computer. The productivity benefits from a Mac computer are easily worth the extra price tag.

Motorola Nexus 6 (Google Fi)

I was a beta user for Google Fi — Google’s pay-as-you-go phone plan that gives you service anywhere in the world.

The plane lands, airplane mode goes off, and…service. It’s that easy. Flat fee is $20/month plus $10 for each GB of data used. I rarely go above 2GB here, so I’m paying $30-$40 a month for service anywhere in the world.

The only other comparable plan out there is T-Mobile, which gives free service anywhere in the world if you use their plan.

Arc’teryx Squamish Hoody

I’ve had this guy for almost 3 years now.

It’s ultralight but extremely effective at blocking wind. Which means 20+ degrees of warmth when it matters. The cuffs and waist pull tight to keep warmth from escaping. And it’s water resistant to boot.

There are other comparable wind jackets out there there, but this one made the look the most like a ninja. Which is, of course, the #1 priority.

Wool & Prince Merino Wool Button Down

I’d heard people praising the wonders of merino wool for ages, but, being the skeptic I am, I held off on it for years. I finally gave in when I needed a nicer shirt to wear to a wedding.

You can wear this for weeks without washing. I have. It fits well, doesn’t itch, and works for both formal and casual events.

Montbell Lightweight Merino Wool T-Shirt

Merino wool t-shirt that looks good and doesn’t itch. ‘Nuff said. I wore this to the gym 5 days in a row. No smell. No itch.

These are only available in Japan. And it was only $38 — half of what the competition costs. In retrospect, I would buy the midweight version.

Outlier Climber Pant

Probably the most popular tech pant out there. These are waterproof, wear like sweatpants and some of the few “travel-friendly” pants that don’t look terrible. My only complaint is that the stitching is worse than it could be — I had several holes open up at the seams that I needed to get repaired.

Uniqlo Ultralight Down Vest

The best quality down jacket for a budget price.

It’s ultraportable (folds down to nothing) and light, but blocks the wind and keeps me warm in the winter. I usually wear this along with the wind jacket from Arc’teryx.

Assorted Clothing

Nothing impressive here. Just your typical athletic shorts and athletic shirts. I’m at the gym 2x a day most days, so I like things that dry fast and wick sweat. In a pinch, I can wash things in the shower too.

Stretch Band

A flexible tool for warming up, bulletproofing your shoulders, lassoing wild oxen, doing planche variations and stretching. A lot of people in the movement world swear by these.

Most people won’t need this, but I’m a movement fanatic and train a lot. It’s easily worth it for me.

Arc’teryx Aperture Chalk Bag

I use this to hold chalk for the gym. It’s great for any barbell exercises, leaving white handprints on your landlady’s furniture, gymnastic ring exercises, brachiating on monkey bars, rock climbing…anything that requires grip.

I like this bag because it twists shut to keep chalk from leaking into your bag.

Kikkerland Universal Travel Adapter

This is all you’ll need for your electronics to work in any country.

Light, cheap, flexible–what’s not to like?

Miscellaneous Tech

Some of the other bit and pieces that I carry: a backup battery, a smartphone tripod (for filming workouts) and the cables for my tech, earphones and a nail clipper.

The Takeaways

Remember, what you own is not important.

What is important:

  • Have a habit of eliminating what is not useful
  • How your ownership affects your lifestyle

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